
Help! - Needs toilet but won't get out of bed!
How do we persuade Mum to get out of bed BEFORE she is absolutely desperate to urinate! Both myself, and her PA have tried everything we can think of - and since (between us) - we are with her 24 hrs a day, seem to be spending most of our time waiting for a 'panic'! She needs our assistance for the transfer, but obviously we can't 'MAKE' her move!!
She would be absolutely distraught if she had an 'accident', but tells us she needs to go, and then won't get out of bed for an hour or so!
Although this has happened, occasionally, in the past, recently it is every time.
The other night I spent most of the night 'waiting' while watching her wriggle around in discomfort, which in itself is upsetting for everyone.
There has been no change in Meds, and she is not incontinent.
Has anyone got any ideas, please?

Thanks
