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Leone
Joined: Wed Oct 28, 2009 11:53 am Posts: 969 Location: Ocala, FL
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 Re: condom catheter
jweeks wrote: What we do for our men.......cause there is still the memories of happy times and love. Dale has been wearing a condom catheter for a year and a half. What I'm trying to learn to do efficiently now is cleaning up after number two. I'm certainly glad for the hospital bed. It makes that job so much easier. I never studied to be a nurse. This is on-the-job training.
_________________ Leone Carroll (75); wife of Dale (75) who passed away March 23, 2011
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mockturtle
Joined: Wed Dec 30, 2009 1:46 pm Posts: 3020 Location: WA
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 Re: condom catheter
Leone, my experience for just 'number two' favors those diaper-like disposables, preferably the ones with the button-elastic fasteners on the sides. Easier to take off and put on. Of course, the Depends adjustable can be split down the sides for removal, too. Hugs!
_________________ Pat [67] married to Derek [83] for 37 years; husband dx PDD/LBD 2005, probably began 2002 or earlier; late stage and in a SNF as of January 2011.
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jweeks
Joined: Fri Jun 05, 2009 4:15 pm Posts: 82 Location: Onsted MI
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Get those gloves on and breathe through the mouth 
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Leone
Joined: Wed Oct 28, 2009 11:53 am Posts: 969 Location: Ocala, FL
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 Re: condom catheter
Thanks for your input... The smell is not strong. Perhaps I'm used to it because I've been cleaning Dale up at the toilet for several months.
At this point, I've just been cutting his pull ups on both sides. One thing that is great about the hospital bed is that he has the bars to hang on to when I move him one way and then the other. With the bed cane, it was only on one side. This is a piece of cake in comparison.
Oddly, having Dale in the hospital bed really changes everything. The whole situation is so much calmer. He is still delusional, however. Tonight, there was a train in the bedroom and we needed to be careful about the tracks.
_________________ Leone Carroll (75); wife of Dale (75) who passed away March 23, 2011
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mockturtle
Joined: Wed Dec 30, 2009 1:46 pm Posts: 3020 Location: WA
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I hope that train doesn't keep you awake tonight! Are you living on the wrong side of the tracks? 
_________________ Pat [67] married to Derek [83] for 37 years; husband dx PDD/LBD 2005, probably began 2002 or earlier; late stage and in a SNF as of January 2011.
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| Thu Feb 03, 2011 8:23 pm |
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Leone
Joined: Wed Oct 28, 2009 11:53 am Posts: 969 Location: Ocala, FL
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 Re: condom catheter
mockturtle wrote: I hope that train doesn't keep you awake tonight! Are you living on the wrong side of the tracks?  In a strange sort of way, I'm feeling very blessed right now... so I guess I must be living on the right side of the tracks right now. I'm feeling the love and prayers of a lot of friends.
Sending love, Pat.....
_________________ Leone Carroll (75); wife of Dale (75) who passed away March 23, 2011
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mockturtle
Joined: Wed Dec 30, 2009 1:46 pm Posts: 3020 Location: WA
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Leone, I hope your blessings continue! Hugs galore! 
_________________ Pat [67] married to Derek [83] for 37 years; husband dx PDD/LBD 2005, probably began 2002 or earlier; late stage and in a SNF as of January 2011.
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jweeks
Joined: Fri Jun 05, 2009 4:15 pm Posts: 82 Location: Onsted MI
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 Re: condom catheter
Getting away from the choo choo. I've tried the condom catheter for 5 nights...the 1st 2 were great and what a blessing to have a clean bed and pj's in the morning...then Wayne pulled the hose part off in the morning sometime before he woke up and that wasn't too big of a mess but then the last 2 night he has pulled the hose off before any urine gets into the bad and because he only had a pull up on, it was a huge mess.
Any suggestions? I thought about taping the hose to the condom. Well, I haven't been getting very good rest thinking of him and if it is hurting or twisted so probably will go back to king size diapers and mess.
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| Wed Feb 09, 2011 8:43 am |
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mockturtle
Joined: Wed Dec 30, 2009 1:46 pm Posts: 3020 Location: WA
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Yes, tape the connection. I use Nexcare waterproof tape, found in the bandaid department. I took my roll of Nexcare to the SNF and left a sign on his bedside stand about taping the catheter tubing connection but they haven't always gotten the message. I tape it if I have the opportunity. I've walked in on a few messes in the morning where the tubing had come loose and, with an indwelling catheter, the tubing connectors, once having been apart are contaminated and need to be replaced.
_________________ Pat [67] married to Derek [83] for 37 years; husband dx PDD/LBD 2005, probably began 2002 or earlier; late stage and in a SNF as of January 2011.
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sher
Joined: Tue Aug 17, 2010 9:20 am Posts: 184 Location: So Cal
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Jweeks, I've had a couple of unsuccessful nights since we started using the condom catheter but when Ken pulls the tube it's because I've forgotten to put one of his 'fidget tools' in his hands before bed. I now make sure he has something to pull on other than that tube, and I keep a little light-weight blanket on the side that the tube goes into the bag and immediately cover up the tube and place his hand on top of the blanket so he can't accidently find the tube. I also had a big puddle one morning because I forgot to close the drain tube (but Ken was dry!). I'm a huge fan of the condom catheter, I wish I had started using it a year ago. Sher
_________________ Sher (53) married 29 years to Ken (66) who was diagnosed with LBD in 2008, but it most likely began many years before.
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nandel8
Joined: Sat Jul 31, 2010 5:28 pm Posts: 317
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Sher, you mentioned fidget tools. What do you use for them? Do they work? Del is constantly plucking at his clothes and I think he needs something on his hands. Does he keep this in his hands at night? Thanks, Nan
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mockturtle
Joined: Wed Dec 30, 2009 1:46 pm Posts: 3020 Location: WA
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Do they all pluck at their clothes? Derek does it all the time.
_________________ Pat [67] married to Derek [83] for 37 years; husband dx PDD/LBD 2005, probably began 2002 or earlier; late stage and in a SNF as of January 2011.
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nandel8
Joined: Sat Jul 31, 2010 5:28 pm Posts: 317
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Just a bunch of little pluckers!! Nan
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mockturtle
Joined: Wed Dec 30, 2009 1:46 pm Posts: 3020 Location: WA
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Well, at least they're not motherpluckers! 
_________________ Pat [67] married to Derek [83] for 37 years; husband dx PDD/LBD 2005, probably began 2002 or earlier; late stage and in a SNF as of January 2011.
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Leone
Joined: Wed Oct 28, 2009 11:53 am Posts: 969 Location: Ocala, FL
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 Re: condom catheter
This thread is getting way off target.... but Dale is a lot more 'busy' with his hands now. He not only grabs the bedclothes but he imagines he has things in his hands. His hands are now looking claw-like. He can't feed himself because of that ... and I rarely hand him anything to put in his mouth because he drops it.
_________________ Leone Carroll (75); wife of Dale (75) who passed away March 23, 2011
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